10 Aphrodisiac Essential Oils for Love and Romance

Aromatherapy can play a powerful role in relationships – in fact, some essential oils are so good at sparking passion that they’re believed to be aphrodisiacs. This Valentine’s Day, spice things up with one of these essential oils for love and romance.

10 Essential Oils for Love + How to Use Them

1. Ylang ylang

The sweet floral aroma of ylang ylang has a relaxing effect that makes it popular for romance. The exotic scent calms anxiety and releases inhibitions. In fact, petals of the ylang ylang flower have traditionally been scattered on the beds of newlyweds. Ylang ylang has a strong scent, which can become overwhelming, but it pairs well with bright citrus oils. Put some love in the air with this blend of sweet ylang ylang and uplifting orange and clary sage.

Honeymoon night diffusion

• 3 drops ylang ylang
• 3 drops sweet orange
• 2 drops clary sage

Just drop these essential oils into an electric diffuser, adjusting the ratio as needed for your machine, and set it up in your bedroom.

2. Ginger

When it comes to essential oils for love, the musky, earthy aroma of ginger is said to be very arousing. A warming oil that gets the blood flowing, ginger can help with building physical courage and confidence.

Warming sugar scrub

• 5 drops fresh ginger
• 3 drops black pepper
• 4 drops cardamom
• 1 drop cedarwood atlas

In a mixing bowl, combine essential oils with 2 tablespoons carrier oil and 4 tablespoons granulated sugar. To use, apply to skin using gentle, circular buffing motions, rinse with warm water and pat dry.

3. Rose

The blooming floral fragrance of pure rose oil brings about feelings of love, care, and comfort. Not only does rose oil support women’s reproductive health, the calming aroma also creates an environment of relaxation that fosters intimacy.

Pucker up scrub

• 1 teaspoon honey
• 2 teaspoons brown sugar
• 2 drops rose

Stir all ingredients together until you have a smooth paste. Apply a small amount to your lips using your fingertips, then rinse with warm water.

4. Nutmeg

Nutmeg is a spicy oil that can stimulate a low sex drive and create connection. For a relaxing bath that you can enjoy together, combine warming nutmeg and the comforting yet romantic fragrances of rose and vanilla.

Sensual milk bath

• 3 drops rose absolute
• 2 drops nutmeg
• 2 drops vanilla

Combine essential oils with one ounce of carrier oil and 1 can of full fat coconut milk. Stir together to blend. Pour into a tub of warm water and use your hands to disperse the mixture.

5. Sandalwood

Sandalwood might not be your first pick for essential oils for love, but its warm, woody aroma soothes nerves and promotes sexuality, especially in men. Spritz your linens to set the scene with this exotic aroma.

I love you linen spray

• 35 drops sandalwood
• 35 drops spruce
• 30 drops lavender

Fill a 4-ounce spray bottle with 1/8 cup grain alcohol and add the essential oils. Let sit for 5 minutes and fill the bottle with distilled water then mist linens.

6. Black pepper

Stimulating black pepper combines well with sandalwood and peppermint to create a sensual blend that will warm you up and get your blood flowing. Turn down the lights and take turns massaging each other’s shoulders, neck and back.

Love potion massage oil

• 6 drops sandalwood
• 4 drops black pepper
• 3 drops peppermint
• 1 drop cinnamon leaf

Add the essential oils to two ounces of carrier oil, like grapeseed or sweet almond oil.

7. Neroli

A great oil for anxiety, neroli is a delicate citrus oil that boosts desire while also calming the nerves. You can even wear it by itself as a light perfume.

Steamy synergy

• 2 drops neroli
• 1 drops rose
• 3 drops rosewood

A great blend for diffusing or adding to a warm bath. Add essential oils to one ounce of carrier, then dissolve into 1 cup Epsom salt and add to a warm bath.

8. Clary Sage

Clary sage is known for its affinity with women’s menstruation issues, but the unique musky, herbal scent is also an aphrodisiac that boosts libido.

Love-at-first-scent sachets

• 3 drops geranium
• 4 drops clary sage
• 6 drops sweet orange

You can scent dried rosebuds with this pretty blend to create a passion-inspiring potpourri mix. Just pour it into small cotton bags, then store them in your lingerie drawer. Or transfer the potpourri to a decorative bowl on your nightstand or dresser.

9. Patchouli

An intimate evening doesn’t require heavy floral musks! The rich, earthy scent of patchouli is deeply relaxing before bedtime while helping to rekindle desire.

Adding patchouli to your diffuser along with ylang-ylang, bergamot and frankincense will create a sweet space to become uplifted and adored.

Romantic body spray

• 7 drops bergamot
• 7 drops lemon essential oil
• 7 drops patchouli essential oil
• 3 drops rose otto essential oil

Add essential oils to a 2-ounce mist bottle and fill with distilled water. Replace cap and shake vigorously until well blended. To use, shake bottle and apply 2 to 3 sprays to body.

10. Jasmine

One of our favorite essential oils for love, the sultry scent of jasmine works as an aphrodisiac for both men and women. The heady floral aroma promotes confidence and eases anxiety to create a sense of relaxation. Try a bit of this evocative scent on the inside of your wrists, behind your ears, and on other pulse points.

Enchantress perfume

• 4 drops jasmine
• 3 drops frankincense
• 3 drops sweet orange

Add the essential oils into a 10-ml roll on applicator, then fill the tube with a carrier oil. Shake well before each use.

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